miss_s_b: Ask me anything

miss_s_b (

miss_s_b) wrote,
@ 2010-06-12 11:32 am UTC

Current location:	in bed
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Ask me anything

Ask me a question. Anything you like. As long as I am not infringing anyone else's privacy, I will answer it to the best of my ability.

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	no subject sassy_scot 2010-06-12 03:32 pm UTC (link)
	First memory? (Reply to this) (Thread) (Hide 1 comment) (Show 1 comment)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-13 12:23 am UTC (link)
	Tom Baker turning into Peter Davison at the end of Logopolis. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent)

	no subject freddiefraggles 2010-06-12 07:22 pm UTC (link)
	Why does my mum insist on ironing my clothes even though I tell her it's a waste of energy - her's and the world's - and seem to think I should be immeasurably grateful for her doing so? (Reply to this) (Thread) (Hide 1 comment) (Show 1 comment)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-13 12:24 am UTC (link)
	Because when you have a baby it does weird things to your brain. It's happened to me too, but not with ironing. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent)

	no subject telegramsam 2010-06-12 09:43 pm UTC (link)
	What is your favorite kind of tree? YES, TREE. And don't just say "The Larch" because it's funny. (Reply to this) (Thread) (Hide 2 comments) (Show 2 comments)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-13 12:26 am UTC (link)
	A big old oak with ivy growing around the trunk. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 1 comment) (Show 1 comment)

	no subject telegramsam 2010-06-13 03:16 pm UTC (link)
	I approve of your choice. :P (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent)

	no subject ggreig.livejournal.com 2010-06-12 10:19 pm UTC (link)
	If you had a single wish and could make one thing happen right now, what would it be? (Reply to this) (Thread) (Hide 1 comment) (Show 1 comment)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-13 12:28 am UTC (link)
	I'd like to have enough money to buy my own pub and do it up. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent)

	no subject jamie77 2010-06-13 10:54 pm UTC (link)
	Next Saturday's winning Lotto numbers? (Reply to this)

	no subject frankie_ecap 2010-06-18 11:25 am UTC (link)
	Do you really believe that leafleting is helpful for the Lib Dems, and if so why? (Reply to this) (Thread) (Hide 14 comments) (Show 14 comments)

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miss_s_b
2010-06-19 12:16 pm UTC (link)

Yes and no. I think that SOME people like recieving leaflets, but they are a very small number. Some people are reminded of our existence by their appearance. But also a lot of people find them annoying, and a lot of people find them actively off-putting. On balance, I think leafletting probably annoys more people than is helpful, but I know I am in a minority in believing this.

There needs to be proper extensive research into whether and how well leafletting works. The party wouldn't spend so much money on it if they didn't think it did, because we are VERY cash-poor. But if that money could be better spent elsewhere...

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frankie_ecap
2010-06-19 12:21 pm UTC (link)

I emailed my local party and asked how I could help, and they said have a leaflet round. And I'm reluctant, because in my heart of hearts I cannot convince myself that it is making the world a better place. But I also wonder if I should do it, because that is that they think I need, and it might be the only route to doing something more useful.

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	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-19 12:26 pm UTC (link)
	Oh if you want to help your local party they will almost always give you leaflets to deliver. It's one of my main bugbears. This does not engage people with the party! However, you're right, taking a delivery route will be a route into the party machinery. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 10 comments) (Show 10 comments)

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frankie_ecap
2010-06-19 12:31 pm UTC (link)

That's really helpful, thank you. I will screw my courage to the sticking post and say yes, even though I'm still reluctant. But not until I've navigated the important college deadline next week that I found out about by accident three days ago.

Can't say as I feel particularly engaged, but maybe that will change. And if it doesn't, I can always stop.

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	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-19 12:38 pm UTC (link)
	I'm a party officer, and I'm not feeling particularly engaged at the moment ;) (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 8 comments) (Show 8 comments)

	no subject frankie_ecap 2010-06-19 12:42 pm UTC (link)
	Do you mind my asking what are the reasons? since we're still on the 'ask me anything thread :-) (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 7 comments) (Show 7 comments)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-19 12:45 pm UTC (link)
	Oh, the frustrations of dealing with fallible human beings; myself included. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 6 comments) (Show 6 comments)

	no subject frankie_ecap 2010-06-19 12:52 pm UTC (link)
	For me, I find that dealing with my own fallibility is so much harder than others'. And when I'm triggered by other people, it's almost always because they have some quality that I dislike or repress or want to change in myself. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 5 comments) (Show 5 comments)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-19 12:55 pm UTC (link)
	Oh God I recognise that. I get annoyed with people for being flakey and unreliable, which is a major trait I have. And yeah, I am much harder on myself than anyone else is, and than I am on anyone else. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 4 comments) (Show 4 comments)

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frankie_ecap
2010-06-19 12:57 pm UTC (link)

I suspect that some of this is human nature, and I'm not even sure I'd want to change it in its entirety - I'm nervous of going easy on myself. But I'm sure that I also cause myself unnecessary pain and sometimes I make it harder for myself to do things because I'm beating up and beaten up. It's very hard to put this down, though.

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	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-19 12:59 pm UTC (link)
	Yes, it is hard to put down. One day I might get better at it... (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 2 comments) (Show 2 comments)

	no subject frankie_ecap 2010-06-19 01:01 pm UTC (link)
	Sending you good wishes and hoping you become more engaged soon. Thanks for this - it really has helped. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent) (Thread) (Hide 1 comment) (Show 1 comment)

	no subject miss_s_b 2010-06-19 01:10 pm UTC (link)
	No worries. Glad to be of help. (Reply to this) (Thread from start) (Parent)

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matgb
2010-06-22 10:52 pm UTC (link)

generally, most local parties are completely unable to organise their volunteers effectively. The easiest thing to get someone to do is deliver, anything else needs time and trust. Leafletting does work, to an extent, there're diminishing returns,but feedback shows they work,even with those voters that say they don't.

Best way to actually do stuff is turn up at Exec meetings, all members are welcome to attend, and volunteer to fix something. The website is a perennial thing that needs help, as is date entry and, well volunteer admin. Odds are they haven't got anyone doing polling data analysis, and they'll need that doing.

Other than that, depends how busy they are, is it you lives in Lynne's seat?

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good old days

(Anonymous)
2010-09-10 03:20 pm UTC (link)

I'm sure you will remember us Marie and Lesley from Hull Uni we are having a mini reunion (just the two of us and several bottles of wine) we were looking up old names and found your site.

So how the devil are you?

I'm eternally signal but keeping my hand in Les in happily married and between us we have 3 dogs no kids....

Last we heard you were skipping off into the sunset with Ian what happened and who is Mat??

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Re: good old days

miss_s_b
2010-09-11 10:11 am UTC (link)

I lasted ten years with Ian, but he was slowly driving me mad. He's a lovely, lovely bloke, and a fab dad to Holly, but he was never really right for me. But he was safe, and I think I needed that for a while. We live about 200 yards away from each other and are still pretty close.

Mat, I met while going to see a show in London with

ginasketch. He's... He's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm a lot poorer financially since I left Ian, but my life is richer in so many other ways it's amazing. And he has hair like a timotei advert ;)

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