Re: Another scenario

Date: Thursday, May 19th, 2011 03:23 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] miss_s_b
See, I accept my view on this is not the majority view, but surely if you're not sure you have a person's consent to sexual congress, you don't have sex with them?

It's the responsibility of the instigator to make sure that what they are doing is welcome, in my view, not the responsibility of the instigatee to tell them to stop if it's not welcome.

There is much research which shows that predatory serial rapists get their victims drunk on purpose because this will muddy the waters, and the average date rapist is a very serial offender. But when you question them on what they have done they will happily admit to all the particulars of the offence, but baulk at calling it rape. See, for example, some of David Lisak's research on rape:

If you're drunk and gagging for it, and your partner is insensible, surely having a wank is preferable to the possibility that you might be raping someone?
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